Let’s see some lessons every couple should learn from the scissors so that we can become better couples and build enviable homes.
The scissors is always in pairs and that is where its usefulness is. It is useless without the other part no matter how beautiful it is. The effectiveness of every marriage is lost when couples are not together. Separation and divorce destroys the effectiveness and usefulness of every marriage. Remember, ‘united we stand, divided we fall‘. Separation is not only when you separate physically and you are no longer living together. There are many couples who are together under the same roof but are spiritually, emotionally, sexually, financially, and socially separated. Are you sure you and your spouse are not separated in one of these ways?
The togetherness of scissors is not automatic. There is a small bolt or pin that fixed the scissors together in the middle. In the same vein, if couples must be bounded together like this scissors, there must be ‘bolts‘ that must fixed and wedge them together that will make them inseparable. Some of the ‘bolts’ are:
√The presence of God
√ openness& trust
√ Healthy and joyful sex life
√ family vision
√ good family finance
√ hot family altar, etc.
Try separating a scissors and notice how deep and tight the pin wedging them together is. You won’t be able to separate it easily.
The scissors is useless except someone holds it. Couples can’t be effective except they allow God to hold them and use them to achieve their marital destiny. No family is really useless. It is either you are positively useful and that happens when it is God holding the two of you. You will be negatively useful when it is the devil holding the two of you. The devil can hold the two of you and use you to destroy each other,and destroy the future of your children and even destroy your eternity.
Ask yourself as couples. Who is holding us and holding our family?
Each pair of the scissors has a sharp part and a dull part. The face is sharp while the back is dull. In the same vein, each couple has his/ her area of strengths and weaknesses. Your spouse is not empty. Though you might see the ‘dull part‘ of your spouse, but if you want your marriage to accomplish its purpose; you must recognise the ‘sharp part‘ of your spouse. You must also display your ‘sharp part‘ ( strengths). Don’t just display your ‘dull part‘. It destroys the marriage fast!.
Synergy in working: The two pairs must come together before it can cut whatever you want to use it to cut. Each pair will bring its sharpness and join it with the sharpness of the other pair and cutting will be done easily and smoothly. In like manner, synergy is the energy of any family. All these, my money, my car, my own, my thing, me, mine, myself syndromes will sap away the energy of your marriage. Synergize your resources, money, connection, visions as couples so as to give energy to your marriage to advance it to the next level.
‘I-ness’ is the mother of illness of marriage while ‘WE-ness’ is the mother of wellness of every marriage.
You want energy for your marriage?, then go for synergy. Only ‘SCISSORS COUPLES‘ are ‘SERIOUS COUPLES’.
The joy of a happy family lifestyle is my priority.
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